I think love comes from proximity. It comes from deciding that you want to spend your time with someone during the times you would normally spend alone. It's sharing your life with someone, and living through it together. A lot of it is about cooperation and understanding, obviously, but I think a lot of it does depend on personality and whether or not you... "click." This seems like a cop-out answer but it's literally impossible to give a definite answer unless you'll accept the whole "people just love one another because of a complex set of chemical reactions in their brains" argument.
So I don't think there's a time limit as to how long you need to be with someone until you "love" them. As I said in the previous paragraph, it all depends on how well you "click." I personally haven't loved anyone but myself, so I guess I'd have to have a twin to love someone else but me.
I don't want to say the idea of soulmates are nonsense, but I do think someone can have multiple soul mates. It's like a Venn Diagram. You aren't restricted to one person, but if you find one I think you really can have one. The concept of a soul is much more complicated, but I do think they have some kind of play in who we fall in love with and why.
I guess I like to rant more about love than I like talking about it. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
No comments:
Post a Comment